I came across an article on MSN that was talking about "birth order myths" and I thought it was pretty interesting. While they said that birth order isn't a definite predictor of success, happiness, etc... they did say that each birth order spot had some glaring personalities.
If you're the oldest, you're probably:
* Most likely to succeed
* Most conscientious and reliable
* Conservative
* Self-critical
* A perfectionist
* Able to enjoy the company of older people
* The link between your parents and siblings
In addition, oldest children are:
* Seldom allowed to be just kids--their parents continually push them ahead and expect the most from them
* Often dethroned by younger siblings
* Convinced their siblings will outshine them
If you're the middle child, you're probably:
* A compromiser and negotiator
* The silent rebel against the family's values
* The one with the most friends, an effective team player
* Reticent, but dream of being catapulted to greatness
* Part of the woodwork, unless finally given a position of outright command
Middle children are also:
* Well aware they are frequently bypassed and upstaged by older or younger sibs
* Often eager to carve out a unique spot in the family, whether positive or negative
* Likely to be compelled to move away from the family to establish a secure spot among their peers.
If you're the youngest child, you're probably:
* Compelled to make a contribution to the world
* A show-off who enjoys the limelight
* Both a charmer and a rebel--endearing one minute, hard to deal with the next.
* Often the family clown.
* Creative.
Youngest children are also:
* Often stuck doubting the validity of their perceptions because they were often laughed at or not taken seriously.
* Likely to be compelled to do what the older children haven't.
I have two younger sisters and comparing myself and them to these traits--they seem pretty accurate, except I will never be dethroned.
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